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Queen Bee Order
A sanctuary for melanated femmes to heal, share, grow, learn, love, laugh, fellowship, restore, turn up, and be.
Who we are:
Black women, melanated women/femmes/marginalized genders of the Diaspora.
Spiritually expansive
Intersectional
Life-affirming
Queer and queer allies
Light bearers
Our ancestors’ wildest dreams
Ancestor-respecting
Pantheon following
Sexually expressive
Beyhivers
What we do:
Show up as we are without apology, shame, or guilt
Tell our truth and invite light in
Own our shit and be willing to expand
Be each other’s keeper
Commit to change, pride, communication, intimacy, sisterhood, expansion, and care
The work necessary to be fully ourselves, not a reaction to our inner child or who the world tells us to be
Write, speak, ritual, channel, expand
Heal out loud
What we NOT ABOUT TO DO:
We don't SPAM, self-promote our businesses or products, both on the discussion board or through inboxes/private messengers, except when specifically solicited by an administrator.
We don't shame or dog folks for where they are in their journey. We know the difference between lovingly get someone together and calling someone out to embarrass and "knock them down a peg or two."
We don't spread misogynist, patriarchal, victim-shaming, racist bullshit. Ever. Period.
We don’t misgender or marginalize people’s genders. We use gender neutral terms or ask or people’s pronouns. We may fuck up, but we always take the correction and change our behavior.
We don't bash the Queen (Mrs. Carter if you nasty). Ever. Period.
We don't copy, share, gossip, tattle about what goes on in this group. What happens in Queen Bee Order, stays in Queen Bee Order.
We don't add people to the group without their explicit permission.
We don't play respectability politics or single woman shaming.
We don't need to be warned twice. You know what you doing.
We don't lurk just to be nosy. Get you some business elsewhere and let your headscarf show around these parts.